Your initials in this thread are just for me to be able to say "Okay, FluffyLady said her initials are SDH and someone with those initials is asking to join the facebook group. I'll accept them." It's privacy purposes on here. Once you've been accepted into the group you can post your Dokuga screenname on the wall of the page like others have done.
For instance, when you join you can post "Hey, everyone, it's FluffyLady here!" and they'll know it's you.

Get it? lol I know it can be a bit confusing.